Would you do the same thing?

My "hubby" and I were together for two years this past May. About 3 weeks ago, he decided to leave me and our daughter. He calls every day to see how she's doing, but he never comes here to help me. He left the house a mess, and because of how often my baby eats, I have had no time to clean up. You should see it! I know someone would call child protective services on me! Our dryer was broken, so there's laundry everywhere, waiting for me to wash it. I don't have time to eat anymore, because there's no one to finish cooking when the baby starts crying. I'm having a breakdown, and I don't know if I'll be ok. Ugh, I hate him. Sorry, venting. So anyway, I was going to start putting my daughter in her own room around 3 months or so. Now, I've started co-sleeping. I hate sleeping alone, and I've always wanted to sleep with her, but he wouldn't let me. My mother keeps telling me that I need to put her in her own room, but we love to snuggle up together at night. Am I doing the wrong thing here?