Birthday party ideas?

I'm a 13 year old girl and my 14th is coming up:) I really wanted to do something fun and active like paint balling but all my older brothers and dad have strongly advised me against because it is extremely painful! A few of my girlfriends arent exactly umm mucho? I'm guessing is the right word...ha! Well there sorta diva-is and wimpy...!haha anyways I was think something like laser tag but something a bit more exhilarating than that...if you get what I mean? Any suggestions would be absolutely great - thanks!:)