I need help with my mom!!?

Tell her how you feel. I suggest letting her know that since you are a great student and have excellent grades you deserve to go out with your friends to have fun outside of school sometimes. Tell her you feel stressed out because it's a lot of work getting those good grades and you work really hard in school and you're proactive in school activities, but, you need to relax a little because it's not healthy overloading your schedule with School School School, so you feel if you can at least hang out with friends sometimes it will be like a reward for you and all your hard work. Convince her you want to balance your schedule between school and fun time. There are 24 hours in a day, it's only fair to squeeze some time for fun. You are still young and need to enjoy your teen years. Don't let your mom rob you of that. She just loves you very much to have high expectations for you. Just make sure you get all the school stuff and college trips out of the way first, then for the rest of your day make time to go out and enjoy life. Convince her, She must understand that. If she doesn't, I don't know what's wrong. All I'm saying is negotiate with her and come to a compromise together. Be persistent and don't stop bugging her until you both come up with a plan together about this.